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Tip #11
Let go of the idea of an orgasm as your goal - you can get a more body sensation over a long period of time by forgetting about your orgasm than you can by aiming specifically at it and seeking a quick release.
When making love, focus on the immediate sensation, and enjoy your sensuality wherever you experience it in your body. Picture an internal flowchart of wonderful circular sensuality.
Tip #10
Practice scrupulous dental hygiene - the mouth is the first approach point. Prepare a treat!
Tip #9
Think of him and not you.This means from time to time freeing your mind of what you might like to happen to you and truly focusing on what your lover would prefer.
Do something for your lover with no thought of yourself. An altruistic approach is wonderful so long as you sense it is reciprocated. Do not, however, fall into the trap of letting him take you for granted.
Tip #8
Close your eyes and breathe in your partner’s scent. Try the test of imagining he is part of a line-up and you must identify him, while blindfolded, only by his scent.
Tip #7
Try to look behind your partner’s physical face or body and see through to his sexual self.
Try to see your partner as a person and not just as an abstract figure; this is especially important when starting a sensual relationship but hard to do since we all suffer from the Distorted Mirror,/em> effect when we fall in love ... we cannot help but see our lover as someone incredibly enhanced.
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